I have a doubt,whether am an Indian or not???

Last Sunday,I went for shopping with my family.when i was back to my home,i used a one-way road to reach four-way.left side of the road is filled with vehicle parking and exact space fitted for a car is available for transportation.I traveled utmost to the end and only few meters was remain for four way.At that time one Toyota entered in opposite way and we faced,face to face.I didn't have space to go back,because many vehicles stood behind me.It was easy to that Toyota to move back,but they didn't have mind to roll their wheels back and they asked me to move back.I said i don't have enough space to move,and i requested them to go back. They switched off the ignition, made a quarrel with me by using their native language(Kannada).I didn't know Kannada,so i answered in English.
They asked about my nativity, i told, am an Indian.After few minutes of argument,they identified my native state and immediately they started to scold me using bad words in English regarding my state,my language.I felt angry and i made a severe quarrel with them to justify my point,but no use. They formed a gang by using their thoughts against my native state.I tried to justify my point among the crowd,but no one was ready to help me.I had my family(My Mom,My Sister-In-Law and her Kid) inside my car.What should i do? i requested the people behind me to give space for me to move back and then i moved back and gave way to that idiots.
He came in the wrong way,he made quarrel,he formed a gang against me and finally he did what he wanted to do because of language and i failed because of the same.
I felt a shame.Although am brave but i didn't have guts to face that idiots in front my family. And the public they wouldn't ready to help me.
Please clarify my doubt.Am an Indian or not.
What is my fault? Having Tamil as my mother tongue.
What can i do for my birth?
Am sure on one thing,Tamil people who is surviving in Karnataka don't have guts to say they're Tamilians in a public place or in front of a Kannadiga.they don't have freedom to talk their language free and loud.If a tamilian find a tamilian,they whisper each other in tamil.
What is the point of separating humans on the basis of language.

My request is TREAT EVERY BODY AS SAME.
EVERY BODY AROUND US ARE SAME LIKE US,DON'T DO HARM TO ANY BODY.

Bangalore Traffic

Now,Am in vacation and am spending my time in Bangalore.daily,am giving hands to my car's steering wheel and legs to A,B&C. Bangalore traffic is very worst and most of the people who sits in the driver seat don't have traffic sense.Am wondering,nearly half the percentage in this most are well educated and well designated.everybody's ready to over rule the traffic rules for their personal reason.they're ready to change the tracks unevenly,don't have mind to follow the lane rules,rude driving,etc...
We have a chance to see this type of scenes in almost all the cities in our country.Why am blaming Metro's is,In Metro's Maximum percentage of people who is owning four wheeler are well educated and well settled.
I think,the reason is they're living in a country which is giving complete independence to their citizen to do whatever they like,particularly for rich and who is socially strong.they don't have fear against rules and govt. They're always have a ready mind to over rule the rules.
May be illiterates are good with rules and regulations!!!

Debut To Education

Kavin Karthikeyan,My Nephew(My brother's son) a 3 year old boy has started his schooling's.My brother shot few pictures of his first day of school.After,i viewed that pictures,i tried to remember my first day of school and i failed.Then i asked to my mom,he said a story with good expressions like,you cried and behaved like this and that,etc... but they didn't show any real evidence like photograph or video.At that time they didn't have the capacity to afford that type of technology.so, i imagined my mom's words regarding my school days.
This generation children are very lucky,they have a chance to hear the story of their first day school with real evidence with the help of technology. For parents,there is no way to tell lies and comments with some funny imaginations regarding their first day.
with the help of electronics revolution,plenty of electronic goods available in market which is very low in cost compare with older days.for a middle class people,it's easy to buy a necessary electronic equipment.
so,people are enjoying their life with the help of electronics.

Whether People Living With Their Own Identity!!!

Now a days,Am analyzing about myself regarding honesty,up to which extent am honest and dishonest to myself .dishonest in the sense of acting,telling lies,whether am stick on with my identity and with my thoughts in all situations or not. I rated myself regarding this and i scored only 60%.Although am good with most cases and in most occasions,but still am dishonest. for instance now am jobless,but am telling lies about my situation,yes am acting like a person who have his own earnings.In some places am accepting somebody's idiotic thoughts,idiotic behaviors. I don't have guts to sustain my identity in some situation,i don't have guts to oppose them.

I'm analyzing other people activities too.Most of the people are like this.
we are human beings and we have our own identity and thoughts.
why we are living like this? why we are acting and loosing our identity?

Because of this society.
Because of our dignity and decorum.
Because of our life style.

why? what is the reason?